I still remember attending an after-wake gathering surrounded by strangers when all I wanted to do was write and process the death of my father and uncle.

I needed to be alone.
To write poetry.
Channel the dead.
Be quiet.

We need to give ourselves the SPACE we need by setting boundaries with others.

I wish I had been brave enough to announce to all those strangers that I needed to leave and be by myself. But I didn’t. Perhaps I didn’t want to be judged like my father was who many considered to be, ‘weird, alien, off’.

But now I can understand that it was self care I needed in that moment and the only person that could give that to me was myself.

So, BE BRAVE dear soul and ask for what you need to take care of yourself first.

Hugs and Blessings,
Kathy Crabbe

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About Kathy Crabbe

As a soul reader, astrologer and oracle deck maker the work I do touches many souls on a deep level. I offer sanctuary, solace and inspiration to soul seekers awakening and exploring hidden depths and other worlds. I provide a safe space and encouragement to assist my clients in shining light upon their gifts in tune with spirit and the divines.

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