As summer rolls on here in Southern California I continue doing art shows. As always I learn many lessons about life and people along the way.

The other weekend a woman came into my booth and started grilling me in a very intense and judgemental way about my soul readings.

I could feel my energy dropping and I was at a loss - it happened so quickly! And then she said “I believe you are a young soul” and I snapped to attention. This was a direct invasion of my space that I could immediately identify. No one has the right to force their opinions on you without asking permission first.

So I told her, “I did not ask for your opinion” and she suddenly became very nice to me.

I asked around about this woman and found out that she was very wealthy and had a habit of talking artists way down on their prices and then not seeming to appreciate the discount, but instead took it for granted.

What lessons did I learn in this encounter that might be useful for you?

Lesson 1

Feel the energy in the room and in your body. Take note.

Lesson 2

Put up extra protection by saying a prayer or affirmation.

Lesson 3

Do not overly engage with the person as this may encourage them. Pull back your energy.

Lesson 4

Stand your ground when necessary and speak up for yourself if you feel your boundaries are being dis-respected. Remain calm and use your intelligence.

Lesson 5

After the person leaves sage your space or say a prayer/affirmation and then speak with a trusted friend, spiritual advisor or your guides about what happened. Ground and center by being in nature, touching the earth, hugging a tree.

Lesson 6

Commend yourself on a lesson learned and pull an oracle or tarot card for further insight.

Lesson 7

Reassure yourself that you were NOT imagining things. Your space and your body are yours and you deserve to be treated with respect and decency at all times.

About Kathy Crabbe

Feel Kathy’s healing energy guide you with a gentle touch. You ARE in alignment with your soul’s purpose.

As a soul reader, astrologer, artisan and oracle deck maker I provide a safe space and encouragement to assist my clients in shining light upon their gifts and hidden depths in tune with spirit and the divines.

Capricorn Full Moon Fairy Soul Reading

Ivy Fairy Affirmation: “I am lucky in love and life.”

A five leafed plant sacred to the Goddess. Use to decorate altars at Beltane and Yule along with Holly. Also used to consecrate pentacles and make wreaths for bridal couples and athletic victors. Add to love charms for good luck, fidelity and to guard against negativity and disaster.

Astrology: Capricorn, Moon, Saturn, Venus
Deity: Ariadne, Bacchus, Bona Dea, Dionysus, Osiris
Element: Water
Healing: Headache, kidneys

*This fairy is from my newest deck, the "Fairy Herbal Oracle"